Discussion Questions for “The Only Way Out Is Through”
- Why do you think Fetterman decides to take Derek on a camping trip, when neither of them enjoy camping?
- Fetterman’s ex-wife Sonya gives him this advice: “When you correct others don’t humiliate them. Show them new tenderness; then they will humble themselves.” Does he follow this advice with Derek? In what way? Is his approach with Derek effective?
- In the bookstore, Fetterman thinks to himself, “Isn’t life just one big, long emergency, happening very, very slowly?” What do you make of this thought? Do you agree/disagree? Why?
- When Fetterman stops at the gas station he realizes he spoke to Derek as though he was a dog: “Time to do your business.” What is the significance of this line? Why does Fetterman say that and why does he then regret saying it?
- What was Fetterman’s relationship with his own father like? How does it inform the way in which Fetterman relates to Derek?
- When Fetterman begs Derek not to kill himself, he says, “I’m begging you. Not as a father to a son. As a brother to a brother.” What is the difference, and why do you think Fetterman says that?
- How do you feel about the end of the story? What has been resolved, and how?
- What is the significance of the story’s title?
